How can we listen in ways that create space for others to feel seen, heard, and valued?

As we wrap up Phase 1 of our Sacred Listening Project, we reflect on how many connections have been made and, even more importantly, the quality of those connections. We will soon be embarking on the next phase of this project, where we take an in-depth look at what we’ve heard and see how that information might inform how we move forward, both within our church and in our community. 

Our listeners and story-tellers have reported very positive experiences. Listeners received training on how to truly take in what the other person is saying, without judgement, without giving advice, without blaming. They practiced listening without adding their own information or opinions. By providing such an open, accepting environment, people felt that their stories were heard and had value. The simple act of taking time to sit down and ask meaningful questions is an act of caring and connecting. The first phase of our listening project has already deepened the sense of belonging for many Peoples people. It is our hope that deep connection will become part of our practice.